Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
We are in a battle.
From birth we are taught through words, actions, sights, and sounds what to believe and to value. We are given mixed messages, false securities and are bombarded with images of what a woman should look like, sound like, and live like. Our identity is up for grabs everyday and we are in a battle to determine where we will root our worth.
I for one am rooting into Christ.
I am believing the Gospel that He died to declare to a world that has for too long built its worth on shifting sands. I am sinking down deep into the soil of GOD’s Truth and CHOOSING to grow in that space. I am going to face the battle for my heart and mind, not as a victim, a complainer, or a martyr anymore, but instead with weapons that have already won the war of our souls.
Because every moment I decide that my identity is found in the horizontal world is every moment where the enemy wins. We all have triggers, scars that can be ripped open at a moment’s notice, so putting safeguards into place is a wise, strategic move to keeping your heart safe.
We will be tempted to look in the mirror and base our worth on what you see.
We will be tempted to look at the behavior of our kids and base our worth on what others think.
We will be tempted to control circumstances and base our identity in our accomplishments and the praise of man.
So what does it mean to Guard Your Heart? What does that look like when I am scrolling through Instagram? How does that play out when I hear criticism for a decision I have made? What does it look like when my toddler is throwing a tantrum in Target and all eyes are on me? How does it play out when “everyone else” is doing it?
Here is what Guarding Your Heart has looked like for me over the years. I fight for these everyday because I want to walk out my journey reflecting the GLORY of the LORD. I want to call out the LIES that the world tries to sell me and DECLARE that HE is GOOD and because of the SHED blood of JESUS, I am REDEEMED, MADE NEW. I want that for my man, my children, my friends and for you.
- Guarding my heart means memorizing Truth and when I feel my emotions leading me to believe that my identity was found in the approval of others, I preach the gospel to myself. It means recognizing that I am more concerned about their opinion of ME than I am about their opinion of CHRIST. Guarding my heart has meant loosing the fight for the approval of man.
- Guarding my heart and choosing to walk In All the freedom God died for me to have meant letting go of friendships.
- Guarding my heart means having Truths that I say to myself like..
Tomorrow’s freedom is today’s surrender. (thank you All Sons and Daughters)
God is for me and He is with me.
The battle is won. He does not need me to advance His Kingdom. The rocks will cry out if
My worth is not found in the obedience of my children.
He is enough. You are a GOOD, GOOD Dad.
That is a First World problem.
- Guarding my heart means saying NO to MYSELF. It means there are things I don’t watch, read, engage in or believe. It means there are places I don’t go, relationships I don’t pursue, comments I don’t leave, links I don’t click on and people I unfollow. It means planning out my calendar, living on a budget and creating a meal plan.
- Guarding my heart means learning to give grace quickly and not be easily offended. It means seeking clarification instead of assuming the worst.
- Guarding my heart means that I have accountability. I ask women I know and trust to speak Truth into my life and I begin to see the challenge they can bring as a gift to be unwrapped. Guarding my heart means REVEALING my heart to those who will be tender with it, encourage it and speak TRUTH to it.
- Guarding my heart means letting go of the life I had planned so I can walk out faithfully the one God has for me. It means recognizing that expectations are not reality.
- Guarding my heart means learning to celebrate others instead of using my insecurities as an opportunity to criticize and discredit their abilities. It is understanding that someone else’s AWESOME does not make me LESS THAN. Nor does someone else’s CHILD’S AWESOME make my child less AWESOME.
- Guarding my heart means that when I hear criticism, hurtful words, or differing opinions, I am not crushed under the burden of someone else’s view of me, but rather, I actively choose resting in the Truth of God. Then I can hear the criticism, the hurtful words, the differing opinions and receive them with an attitude of learning and grace instead of defensiveness and justification. (this is not easy!)
- Guarding my heart means I let myself and others off the hook for my happiness and practice how to find Joy in Christ. Guarding my heart means having an eternal perspective, practicing gratefulness and contentment.
- Guarding my heart means my heart is steady, unwavering, and focused on my Father. It means a calm and a peace in knowing that He is Sovereign and there is not one minute of my day that He did not ordain. I can rest that nothing is wasted and it is all for His glory.
- Guarding my heart means I let my emotions be a gauge of for my heart instead of a guide for my actions. It means letting my feelings reveal what my heart is believing and not an excuse and a justification to respond in sin. (thanks John Piper blog)
Scripture says to guard our hearts ABOVE ALL ELSE. I think that shows this is a battle worth fighting…..
How do you guard your heart?
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